Joined Successful Singles and met women that were interested in having a long-term committed relationship.I don't have lots of time to spend on the computer, so having my own personal matchmaker was an ideal situation for me," said John of Norwood, Mass.
Like Successful Singles and It's Just Lunch, Lifemates uses a personal inteview and match-up process and targets upscale clients."The Lifemates Canada Dating program carefully evaluates each and every member so that we can introduce you to an individual that shares your interests and background," the company says.The world is a big place but perhaps not quite big enough to be so inflexible in our choices.As with all the services featured here, read the contract carefully, be sure you understand it and keep a copy. If a dating service says it will introduce you to two people a month, it's not realistic to expect it to produce more than that. Maybe it's just that folks really are friendly (or at least very cold) in Canada and unusually grateful for human warmth but for whatever reason, Lifemates Canada seems to have a stellar record of forging new alliances."Lifemates introduces you to members whom, because of common values, goals, professional backgrounds and other similarities, provide the highest likelihood that you will move your date into a true relationship."Lifemates Canada has been in business for more than 20 years and has 10 offices around the country. Lunch is OK but what if you want to go skydiving or horseback riding? Operating in nine cities, Events and Adventures organizes a series of events each month for its invitation-only clients."In a group, there’s no pressure, everyone relaxes, and you can be yourself.Each month is packed with 30-50 great event choices: foodie, night out, active adventure, casual hangout," the company says.The dates have all been delightful, professional women.
I have enjoyed my experiences, and have made a connection with one of the women."There's no free lunch and IJL is not exception. That may sound like a lot and while it may be true that money can't buy happiness, it may at least make the down payment.
But my favorite was the Halloween haunted house party bus."Like other higher-end services, E&A doesn't list its prices on its website so be sure you understand the pricing and have read the contract carefully before signing anything. The dating services we've looked at so far have all been, to one degree or another, what the MBA types call niche plays -- designed to appeal to a certain slice of society, and generally a higher socio-economic slice at that.
They all have a personal "facetime" element as well -- you have to meet, or at least talk to, a human being to be accepted. It's what we might all a "pure Internet play" -- everything's done online, nearly anyone can register and what happens after that is up to you.
No matter how much or little you spend, being too rigid in your expectations or specifications can lead to frustration.
One negative review we read said the client wanted to meet no one older than 32 and became angry when one date turned out to be 34.
One thing's for sure -- there's no shortage of dating sites. Fittingly for a site in a region that cherishes its history and traditions, Successful Singles has been around since 1984, which is not quite the Colonial Era but actually predates the Internet as we know it.