Dating the married
He would be with me when his kids started school again. He talked of long-term dreams, about our future house and trips we would take and having kids eventually. I became a Monday through Friday, nine to five girlfriend. We were together nearly every day, as together as a hidden relationship allows you to be. I sat by, clinging to hope, and watched him as he bought new furniture with his wife. He hired a landscaper and started repairs on his house.
Maybe one day, after all the lost time, he will join me and my September will come.All you start talking about is the good times both of you share every day.And then, one fine day, just before hanging up he says, “Sweetheart, if only I wasn’t married, I would be so in love with you. The beginning of the end The real dark story unveils here.The realization – Being used by a married man When I was involved with a married man, I felt terribly used.I hated myself for doing what I was doing, and yet, I couldn’t help myself. That’s what happens to any woman who’s involved with a married man, because when you’re the “other woman” there are no weekends together, no family parties, no meeting friends, nothing.Getting into a relationship with married men We love helping people we like out of troubling situations.
And admit it, you’d love a man who’s a mess, if he likes you. But when he looks towards you for emotional support and love, the same things his own wife, apparently, doesn’t provide him, you end up falling in love, more with his emotional affairs rather than anything else.
He’d love you physically, but his emotions still stay with his real family.
This can piss off just about anyone, especially when they’re so madly in love, but the promise of better things to come in the ‘near’ future and the sex is just too good of a promise to spurn the advances of a married man.
There is no way he’s ready to do that, even if your closet love goes on for a few years. You wake up feeling cheated, used and totally and miserably helpless. But all this is just the tip of the iceberg of problems when you have a relationship with married men.
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When you enter into a relationship with married men, inevitably you step into a world that can reveal a lot of joy, and yet, tear all the happiness away instantly.