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And if you want to be a little more about this online dating thing, Interracial Dating Central is the official dating site for this blog. But the world of online dating can be difficult in a very specific way for those who identify as multiracial. Whether it's some drunk guy saying, "You're so hot, I don't care that you're Hispanic" (I'm not Hispanic), or someone finding out my dad is from India and then only wanting to talk about curry and Bollywood, my experiences as a multiracial woman have been marked by people just not knowing how to bring up race without being incredibly awkward.

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"Those of us who are ethnic minorities who identify as multiple races are marginalized by the race we physically look like," he wrote.There’s so many parallels with this dynamic when you line it up with the black community and intermarriage for example: Black men date and marry interracially (particularly white women) at twice the rate of black women.Asian women have the highest rates of intermarriage.Many people who participated in #biraciallookslike brought up similar experiences.For every person trying to decipher just what makes you look so "exotic," there's someone who acts like dating someone of mixed heritage will make them more interesting. It just makes them, at best, racially insensitive, and at worst an asshole., nearly 9% of couples are of different races, nearly twice as many as there were in 2002.While the boys of WM/AW pairings are often resented the more Asian they look, the boys of BM/WM pairings that look more white than black are resented by their fathers. Asian women aren’t going to stop intermarrying with white men, racist or not.

The Asian wives of white supremacists tolerate their racist attitudes toward the Asian diaspora and anyone not white. The cycle will continue, and more than likely, increase.

From what I read, girl children of white fathers and Asian mothers fare pretty well, while the sons (especially if they look more Asian) suffer greatly. He said, “Asian women seek white men because Asian men, largely, treat their women like shit.

Half Asian sons with Asian mothers can be VERY high risk, especially if they are forced to identify as Asian men as they get older, in a world where white men and white features are considered superior, even by their parents, and Asian men are undesirable, and have to deal with crippling gendered stereotypes, unrealistic expectations, racist-narcissism, fetishes and dysfunction at home, lack of media representation, and having a racist, weird, unattractive, sexpat or bottom of the barrel white father who fetishizes Asian women as a “low-standard, pro-white” alternative to non-Asian women, while attacking Asian men with his wife, who can in turn be a racist, unloving, callous Tiger Mother who attacks her own child for looking too Asian, casually attacks Asian and Half-Asian men, hypes up her child for being half-White, and pushes for White privilege and status. I’m not going to take a position on this, but I asked a friend of this blog, a white man married to a first-generation Chinese woman. Women aren’t stupid.”So from his perspective, maybe Asian women are mating with white men at high rates not because they deem white men superior, but because they are unsatisfied with how their own men treat them. I’d love to hear from other people about this, so feel free to chime in.

As a blogger in the interracial marriage space, I’ve heard all sorts of rumors about other cultures and races here in America, with all sorts of explanations for why they behave the way they do–particularly Asians.

For example, I’ve heard from various sources that many Asian women have bought into the idea that white society is superior in all things, and have a “If you can’t beat them, join them” kind of attitude.

"It's integral to who I am so I almost never try to hide it," she told . " or messages that said it was strange that her dad is Asian and her mom is white "because it's usually switched." Instead of penalizing her for her mixed-race background, users fetishized it.