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As soon as he realizes what a prize you are, he won't want to let you go. She coaches singles on the dating scene and helps them find love online and IRL.For more dating advice, follow @Julie Spira on Twitter and sign up for the free Weekly Flirt newsletter.
So the question is, if he acts like your boyfriend, takes down his dating profile, calls you daily, texts you daily, spends almost every night with you, says you're exclusive, and is affectionate in public, why won't he call you his girlfriend? Be prepared to leave the relationship if the answer isn't what you want to hear. But exactly how do you find out without asking him outright and getting a look like you’ve just asked him to marry you? Figuring out what is going on in a guy’s mind in the first few weeks of dating would really help a woman feel more assured, knowing that she is in control of the situation.So as an unbiased third party I’m here to tell you like it is – judgment-free, constructive, and blunt. How can you turn an awkward first date with the man of your dreams into the relationship you’ve dreamed of?Harsh realities made me defensive and stuck in denial.
But deep down, I struggled so much because I knew they were true.
Here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction.
Never empty your glass – You might be shaking like a leaf and nothing would settle your nerves more than to knock back the glass of wine on your table, but trust me, it’s not worth it.
It's obvious that you're an important part of his life, or otherwise he'd be out with his drinking buddies instead of holding you in his arms every night. First of all, don't get overemotional about it yet. He likes the friends-with-benefits arrangement and regular sleepovers. If he says you mean the world to him but still doesn't assign a label to your relationship, believe him at his word.
You might wonder if you should give him the big ultimatum about your relationship status, let it slide, or have a conversation about mutual respect and expectations in a relationship. Before you go having the relationship talk and cause an explosion or breakup prematurely, look at these signs to determine where you fit on his relationship totem pole. He might not be ready to change his Facebook relationship status or go ring shopping, but you might be on the track to falling in love.
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