Masturbing chat room
I usually do it before I go to bed so I fall asleep better.
I think masturbation is a completely normal and healthy expression of loving your body and who you are.I just use my hand, and usually if I'm in the mood to do it, I really don't need to think about anything else to help.It makes me feel proud that I'm secure enough with myself and my body to do it."My mom told me once that she saw me playing with myself when I was a toddler, but the first time I can remember masturbating was in my early teens, maybe 13 or 14. It was pretty clumsy, and I recall being more embarrassed and worried that someone would walk in on me than focused on pleasure. It's nice to be able to take pleasure into your own hands... Now that I'm 18, I bought myself a vibrator." — Jill, 1810. I usually start off reading sexy stories on Tumblr or porn websites, hump my pillow, and then start to use my hand.I've never talked to anyone about masturbating because I feel like I'd get judged for doing it.Since then, I would say I regularly masturbate maybe three times a week, whenever I have free time in my bed really. It's empowered me to take control of my body and dictate when and how I experience pleasure. Or sometimes when I'm texting my friends in the group chat I'll be like, "brb gonna go mb." It's completely normal.
In a society that prioritizes men's sexual pleasure over women's, I take pride in knowing that I love myself and deserve all the pleasure I want and enjoy." — Avery, 227. I used to be really ashamed about it, though." — Fran, 229. When I first started masturbating, I'd use either my fingers or my shower head. I had a pillow between my legs to keep them from sticking to each other, and next thing I knew, I was humping the pillow.
(And hey, it's fun and feels good, too.) If you think you're the only one of your friends who has done it, you're probably not.
Here, 18 girls open up about how they do it, how often they do it, and all the complicated feelings (pleasure, empowerment, happiness, embarrassment) that go along with they brought up masturbation. Up until a few months ago, I was COMPLETELY embarrassed about masturbation.
One day when I was sad, my best friend/roommate said I need to lock myself in my room, explore my body and love myself.
Ever since, I've been very open to masturbating and truthfully regret not pleasuring myself sooner. I'm not embarrassed that I masturbate; if we're close enough and you ask me, I won't deny it at all.
I had no idea at that time what it even meant, but handy ol' Google quickly filled me in. Each time I did it, I was ashamed that it happened and wished that it didn't.