Online dating sites and educated women
Medellin nightclubs are for dancing, so it’s very easy to go up to a woman in a noisy disco, put out your hand, gesture for her to take it, and start dancing.I do this often, and many times I will dance one or two songs without even saying a word.
So I do not have that instant “gringo effect” on them.For an emasculated man from the United States this is a nightmare.Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.NOTE: I wrote this post about my experience dating women in Medellin back in April of 2013.Over the past 5 years I’ve dated many Colombian women and I frequently update this post.It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose.
Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.
Imagine, our hands are on each other’s bodies before even knowing each other’s names.
More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. Amazingly, when I do that women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing.
On the street I am usually attracted to women who look as if they are on their way to an office job.
Generally, these women will be dressed formally, but fashionably.
It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.