Sweet dating words
The words (if you can call them that) are the top nine worst words to use in an opening message.Mails that contain these words will get practically no replies proving that intelligence (or maybe just good grammar) is an attractive trait in both sexes.
And this couldn’t be more true when it comes to contacting someone online.It might not sound very romantic, but you can’t argue with stats and figures and following a set of guidelines will probably help you feel more comfortable when sending your first message.Netspeak is the main culprit when it comes to unsuccessful first mails.I know this is not marketing school but, like a marketer, you are trying to reel someone in.And just like an ad agency makes a call to action, you can too, by simply asking about an interest or even suggesting a dinner date.Online dating gives you a bit of an advantage in that you can strategically plan that first message so it hits home with a bit of a punch.
Unlike an everyday face to face meeting where the words just tumble from your mouth in no apparent order.
Better to focus on interests, or even better, common interests. Talking about your own interests can give the recipient a good idea of what you are like.
It seems this is almost as important as talking about their interests so using any word that describes an interest or hobby is great, once your hobby isn’t too weird.
I don't think anyone's ever slept with me for something I said, except I suppose for "You're cool, you wanna come over?
" I've talked myself out of one night stands way more than into them.
Ideally, though, you’ll have some sort of common interests and once you’ve picked up on that then a conversation, or better still, a date could be just around the corner.