Text chatting with girls
A proper smiley face can put more meaning to something you text.
Most guys really have no idea what to do after they get a number.So sometimes, when you say something she might take as being serious through text, if you just throw in a smiley face at the end, it can completely change the mood of the text. ” This message is a little too serious for a question like that.For example, if you want to tease a girl but not come across as being too serious, you can say something like “Julie! It’s been forever since I’ve seen you :)” A text like this shows her that you’re inquiring about her and would like to know where she’s been lately. She’s so much more likely to reply to the first as opposed to the second, which is a little too pressing.Just try to understand the usefulness of “lol” here and there. Putting “lol” into every sentence, or even every few sentences, makes you look like a half-assed, not-so-funny, would-be comedian!Instead, use it rather sparingly and interchangeably with the smiley faces. Otherwise, you’ll come off as trying too hard to be funny and look weak.You’ll want to appear as if you’re high status and busy as well and take your time in replying to her, too. You don’t want to appear too available as this makes you look needy. You’ve probably done this before already, thinking that if you didn’t reply to her fast enough, she might lose attraction for you or she might be upset with you because you take too long and that might ruin your chances with her. Come on, admit it, you’ve done this before; everyone has. It’s not a rule that should be followed to a tee, but it should be loosely followed, and if done, should put you into an attraction-building position.
I say loosely followed here because you don’t want to always text her eleven minutes after she texts you if she usually takes about ten minutes to text you. If she is in a pattern of texting you every ten minutes or so, and you have seven texts between you, take 15 minutes, 20 minutes, 8 minutes, 10 minutes, 30 minutes, 5 minutes, 13 minutes. They’re more of the natural timing texts between friends would be.
We become obsessed with checking our phones every couple of minutes, and we don’t take control of our lives.
Instead, we let our cell phones control how we live!
After that, it’s all about the text game, so you really have to master what you say. You’ll be getting her to say “Yes” to go on a date with you.
Any bad slip up or mistake and your potential for a date will slip away forever . You’ll be getting her laughing and saying how great of a guy you are. When the question of comes up, smiley faces are good in my book.
Then I’d check that the phone wasn’t on silent and that the vibrator was on so that I’d know for sure when I did get that text back.