Tips on dating a korean boy
Men all over the world have different tastes and you should accept dating is going to be a miss and hit.
However, in Korea, intimacy is actually included inside the relationship itself. In Korea, if a Korean guy likes a girl and the feeling is actually mutual, they date (without saying that they are dating).Compared to a very sexless Japan, a foreign woman’s chances of dating a Korean man is quite good.In my experience, Korean guys I meet are more open-minded and have studied abroad thus susceptible to other ideas outside his country. For me, the ultimate reason why probably most girls want to have a Korean guy is because of what Korean dramas build on their minds about Korean men. Do we have to believe in it and fully trust those famous Korean dramas regarding the personalities that Korean men have? Such as the girl will pay for the food and the guy will pay for the movie. Well, if you watch Korean dramas, Korean guys usually don’t say ‘I love you’ most of the time. But actually there’s an exception, when he’s studying! I don’t see him touching his phone when we are having our class or even when he’s studying alone (though not all students are like him.. ) Anyway, the point here is a Korean guy has focus. Wait until he finishes the first round of the game (just like another guys, anyway.)Because of the gender roles I discussed in my previous article (which I mentioned that girls should be like naïve, innocent to attract more attention from guys) , a Korean guy likes it when a girl lets him talk or let him lead the conversation or even the relationship itself. I know some Korean guys who are really trying to be cute most of the time with the use of those expressions and everything. For example, if you started the relationship last February 14, 2013, you will have you first monthsary on March 14, 2013 and so on. Sometimes, they do it from shirts, pants and even shoes. Probably (because you’re now reading this article) you’re wondering how it feels or what does it seem like when you are going out with a Korean guy or perhaps a Korean boyfriend. When a Korean guy goes out shopping with a girlfriend, he doesn’t allow his partner to split the check or pay anything. (But again, it depends on the situation, for example, if the guy is really capable of doing so or not.) Sometimes, they both spend their money. but I never heard the phrase ‘I love you’ until the time they were about to get married. When we’re eating, when we’re talking or even when we’re playing. The bad thing here is when he plays, he really plays! You can’t have him stop playing just to answer your call or your message. Here in the Philippines, we celebrate being in a relationship every month. It is normal for couples to wear matching clothing. As I mentioned earlier, it’s normal for a Korean guy to pay for almost everything on dates. Though not that expressive in terms of the phrase “I love you”, a Korean boyfriend tends to send a lot of text messages in a day… My student, for instance, is always sending a message to his girlfriend. This is actually a formal meeting and getting to know each other. After the first date, the next date will actually be a confirmation if the two will be a couple or not. So if you decided to have the second date, it means you’re already in a relationship with that guy. When you decided to be a couple, then begin counting days because you are going to celebrate your 100th day in the relationship. Well, worst is the Korean couple outfits (but it actually sounds so sweet to me).
A Korean guy also tries to be a gentleman by carrying your bag or bags but don’t expect that he’ll always open the door for you or let you walk through first. And last but not the least, Korean guys are not afraid to be cute. In Korea, it's quite different because they don't celebrate monthly but every 100 days of being in a relationship. Basically, it's because men want to make sure that everyone knows the girl is theirs and vice versa. 밀당 (mildang) is short for 밀고 당기기 (milgo danggigi) which is translated as "push and pull". If you have something to say, feel free to leave a comment!
This can be very dangerous and something you need to be aware of.
There is a sex culture of wanting to sleep with a foreigner, especially if they don’t look Asian and even more if they’re white. You also need to watch out for if he just wants someone to teach him English.
Koreans can be very much intimidated by English and shy away from girls that know none of their native language.
There are some guys who are interested in dating foreigners and others who are only interested in dating Korean women.
Many Koreans want to experience something different. It’s not so much about a winning personality as it is about looks. Sometimes Korean men are also aware of passports and want that green card to further their career, job opportunities, aspects in life, etc.