Womens self respect and dating tips
You’ll just continue to experience the same behavior that’s crushed your happiness.While you’re here reading this article, I do hope you’ll listen closely to this piece of advice: for yourself when you’re spending all of your time trying to make things right in the relationship instead of focusing on your own goals, dreams, desires and more.
However, this is important to show that you respect yourself, that you don’t like being yelled at, that you aren’t afraid to get up in her space and basically radiate your masculinity all over her.You don’t run from battle, you don’t cower in the corner when you’re facing a fight. It’s important to understand that while a normal girl would dump a nice, passive guy before even getting close to hooking up, a BPD will go out with you, hook up with you, possibly even get in a relationship with you, but leave you the minute an edgy guy enters her life.I will be the first person to admit that it’s incredibly hard to change yourself.You must find that edgy side to you that isn’t afraid to push people around that get up in your grill.I had a client email me about how he would just ignore and be silent on the couch when his BPD girlfriend would yell at him.Check this article out: To go a long with what I am saying above, your ideal partner and ‘love’ that you seek is really just a fantasy that you’ve created in your mind over the years.
We all have fantasies but it’s important to not try to make them reality.
A BPD will make you feel like you’ve found the perfect partner – need to survive and succeed in this world!
I can’t stress how important it is to calm your feelings and think outside your head for a minute.
Throughout my many years of coaching men and women, I have found that the BIGGEST cause of BPD relationship failure is when the non-BPD fails to establish boundaries early on.
And by boundaries I mean For women, there’s just nothing more attractive than a man that knows what he wants, isn’t afraid to call you out, challenges you instead of chasing you, values himself and yet still has that genuine love for you. For men, while we do tend to focus more on beauty, the killer combo is a woman that’s beautiful has brains.
Both men and women make these mistakes when dating a BPD.